Your Time, Your Money, Your Happiness, and Your Questions Answered

Time is the most precious gift in the world.

There are only 24 hours in a day and you’re asleep for 1/3 of them.

So how are you allocating your time?

How many hours per week do you spend at work?

How many hours per week do you spend commuting?

How many hours per week do you spend with people you love?

How many hours per week do you spend learning or growing?

How many hours per week do you spend in the pursuit of love?

Tally it up and you’ll see what I see every day.

You know that connecting with others, learning and finding lasting love are the keys to your long-term happiness. But where do you spend all your time?

That’s right.

Time is the most precious gift in the world.

You spend the least amount of time doing the things that give you the most pleasure.

I’ll admit: I’m very lucky.

I’m my own boss. I work from home. I don’t work nights or weekends because being a good husband and father is more important than any career successes.

But I also know that this is rare. Sometimes your life gets a bit out of whack – where you lose sight of your priorities and you can’t seem to get things under control.

Well, today is your big chance.

Women this week have been emailing me to learn more about Love U, my one-of-a-kind new program that will help you understand men and find lasting love.

Since time is at a premium — and since I can’t conceivably write back emails to every woman who is curious about Love U — I have decided to answer them all here.

“I’m a busy woman with lots of previous obligations. How much time is Love U going to take me?”

The very point of Love U is to bring this world-class material into your hands in a fun, digestible fashion that does not require you to redo your schedule.

Now, I often compare the process of finding love with the process of losing weight. But there’s one big difference:

Losing weight is an arduous process. It never ends.

You watch what you put in your mouth each day for the rest of your life.

You exercise each day for the rest of your life.

Contrast that with Love U, in which one aha moment can change everything.

One two-and-a-half minute video can make a light bulb go on over your head, illuminating your path to the altar.

And that’s why — when my readers told me in a survey they were willing to give 2-3 hours to Love U every week — I got really excited.

I don’t need you to give me 2-3 hours.

To watch the videos, you need 25-35 minutes per week or 5 minutes a day.

You can knock it out all at once like watching a half-hour sitcom, or you can just look at the videos on your phone before you go to sleep.

Believe me, if you have time to brush your teeth, you have time to do Love U.

“Why does Love U last 6 months? I’ve seen other programs that are only 6 weeks.”

Either those 6-week programs are force-feeding you more than you can handle, to the point where you’re stressed out at how fast they’re going…or more likely, they’re really limited in scope. That doesn’t mean they’re bad.

It means they are not doing anything nearly as comprehensive as Love U.

Take an amazing program like Calling in the One, which is 7 weeks of healing your past. But despite it’s considerable merits, it doesn’t tell you what to do NEXT.

• – How to gain confidence and enjoy the dating process.

 

• – How to flirt and make cute men take notice.

 

• – How to date online and attract the highest quality guys.

 

• – How to deal with texting and sex and dating multiple people.

 

• – How to be selective and avoid wasting time on losers.

 

• – How to understand men and be the only woman who “gets” him.

 

• – How to have healthy boundaries and assert your needs.

 

• – How to communicate and make men want to please you.

 

• – How to break up when it’s time to move on and cut your losses.

 

– How to be a great girlfriend that gets a great guy to propose.

That much stuff simply can’t be taught, digested and implemented in 6 weeks.

What I love about Love U is that once you learn something, you never unlearn it.

Love U allows you to learn with very little effort, by breaking this material into digestible weekly chunks. This way, you will never get burned out, and you will be able to put the lessons into practice effectively.

And if you still want the quick-fix miracle where you think positive thoughts and manifest Mr. Right in a month, well, then, you’re correct: Love U is not for you.

“When can I expect to see results from Love U?”

Instantly.

I don’t mean that facetiously. I mean that quite literally.

What I love about Love U is that once you learn something, you never unlearn it.

So when you dive into our first week and watch those first videos, I am going to bring you back from the depths of despair…

…reframe your negativity, and give you an instant jolt of confidence that will carry through this entire program and beyond.

Every week, you are going to have some major aha moment that reshapes your perspective on dating, relationships, and men…

And before you know it, everyone you know will see a difference.

Your friends. Your family. And especially the guy you end up dating.

So while I will never make a promise I can’t keep, I will say this with all sincerity:

Nobody has ever worked with me and said, “Man, that guy didn’t know anything. He didn’t care. I didn’t learn a thing that I didn’t already know.”

You are going to gain immeasurably in each and every week, so by the time you graduate you will not have any blind spots when it comes to men and relationships.

In other words, if you don’t have a boyfriend by the time you graduate Love U, the question is not a matter of if — it’s only a matter of when.

“I just don’t know if it’s worth the money.”

Really? Look at your credit card statement.

Take a look at what you spend money on.

Car. Gym. Hair. Gas. Makeup.

Shoes. Clothing. Gifts. Restaurants. Classes.

Travel. Gadgets. Antiques. Hobbies.

I’m sure we could go on, but if this is where your money is going, can you really say with a straight face that any of this is more important than LOVE?

If you don’t have a boyfriend by the time you graduate Love U, the question is not a matter of if — it’s only a matter of when.

Let’s look at it another way — pre-boyfriend and post-boyfriend.

Would you rather buy dinner for one or have a man who takes you out to dinner?

Would you rather spend thousands on home improvement or find a guy who is handy around the house?

Would you rather travel with a girlfriend or stay in a honeymoon suite?

When all is said and done, there is literally NOTHING more important than love.

And for the price of a inexpensive lunch each day, I will answer your most pressing questions about dating, sex, men and relationships so that you will gain confidence, awareness, experience, motivation, perspective and success.

If you’d rather invest that same money in something else, that’s fine.

But don’t tell me that $333/month for 6 months is too much to spend on finding a spouse.

You spent $100,000 on a college education and you forgot everything you learned.

My area of expertise — self-esteem, love, and happiness – is FAR more important and will pay infinitely greater dividends in your future.

“Okay, Evan, it’s worth the money. I just don’t want to SPEND the money.”

That’s a little closer to the truth.

And I completely get it:

You don’t want to spend money on something that seems unnecessary.

After all, millions of women find love without Love U.

Why should you have to invest in a course to find love?

Great question.

But I have a question to your question:

How many more years do you want to struggle with men?

How many more years do you want to be alone?

How many more years will you invest your time, energy and money in things that are comparatively frivolous — cars, vacations, furniture, fashion, beauty?

How many more years are you going to deny how much you want to be loved just because you’re afraid of failure?

Because to me, THAT’s the crux of it.

You’re not afraid of investing the money in a quality program like Love U.

You’re afraid of what happens if this doesn’t work.

You’re afraid of doing anything different — and you justify it by staying in the exact same place you are today.

Low-stakes, low-rewards.

Spending more time at work than on love, even though you know that love makes the world go ‘round.

So I am certainly not saying that Love U’s monthly cost is nothing.

You’re afraid of doing anything different — and you justify it by staying in the exact same place you are today.

I’m saying that when you look back in 30 years at how happy you were to have spent your life with one special man, you will certainly not remember the modest monthly cost it took to get you there.

I am now married to a wonderful man that I met about 2 years ago on Match. I cannot overemphasize how important your guidance and advice was in finding the right person for me. I worked with you in different capacities over half a year I think. I tried Match, eHarmony, speed dating, blind dates, ItsJustLunch and went on over 80 dates with about 40 people. It was exhausting and disappointing. Really hard. The hardest thing I have done in my life apart from going through a divorce and then a failed engagement. I read lots of books on dating (for the first time in my late 30s) and spoke with girlfriends and family, but your sharp advice kept me focused and gave me invaluable perspective. I chose to believe you and followed your advice as I was lost without it — it gave me hope where I thought no hope existed.

At the end it happened exactly the way you predicted it. While I was struggling with the tedious, demanding, exhausting dating life, he was going through a divorce and recovering. One day the wife of his best friend signed him up for Match. I winked at him. He wrote me a thoughtful response. I was his second date from Match and it instantly clicked. We were married in September after a year of dating.

All I can say is THANK YOU. Keep doing what you are doing — you are so good at it. You were the wizard in my love story.

Ana

Ana was a private client who paid nearly $8000 for 3 months of coaching.

Love U is only $333/month for a six-month curriculum with weekly videos, exercises, coaching calls and a private online forum to ask questions.

There’s a money-back guarantee. You have access to it for life. And time is running out, as this special offer is only available for a few more days, until May 31.

Click here to learn what Love U can do for you.

Warmest wishes and much love,

Your friend,

Evan

P.S. Healthy. Loving. Calm. That’s what you’ll feel when you are in the relationship I’m describing. I know six months seems really far away right now, but imagine what it could be like to be in a healthy, happy relationship, where you can show off your new boyfriend at Thanksgiving dinner.

This can be your destiny…but you have to act before enrollment closes in a few days on May 31st.

Click here to see what Love U can do for you.

P.P.S. If you still have questions about Love U, check out my FAQ, which should cover just about everything you need to know about this limited-time offer.

Can’t wait to see you next week for your first class on Past Baggage…