How to Stop Overthinking Relationships

Do you spend too much time in your head overthinking your relationship?

In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I explore the two most common types of overthinking in relationships: anxious attachment and analyzing failing relationships to death. I share why overthinking happens, how it sabotages your happiness, and the tough questions you need to ask yourself to gain clarity. Whether you’re stuck in an unsatisfying relationship or constantly second-guessing a good one, this episode offers practical advice to help you stop overthinking and start trusting your feelings. If you’re ready to find a relationship that feels easy and secure, you don’t want to miss this one!

Is He REALLY Ghosting You?

Are you really being ghosted—or are you misreading the situation? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I unpack the nuances of ghosting, explore what it really means, and challenge common misconceptions. From dating app conversations that fizzle to serious relationships that abruptly end, I delve into how to differentiate between typical dating behavior and true ghosting. Plus, I offer insights on how to respond when someone comes back after disappearing. If you’ve ever felt confused, hurt, or frustrated by sudden silence, this episode will help you navigate online dating with more confidence and clarity.

Choosing Yourself Over a Relationship

Sometimes, the best choice is to prioritize yourself over a relationship. In this Love U Podcast, I explore six reasons why you might choose self-focus over dating, whether for personal growth, independence, or emotional well-being. Embracing time alone can help you rediscover what you truly want and regain clarity.

If you’re ready to navigate the balance between independence and connection, this episode is a must-listen.

Why Women Need Men With Masculine Energy

What is masculine energy, and why do women need from the men their relationships? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, Carol and I unpack the dynamics of masculine and feminine energies, sharing how they complement each other to create stronger, healthier partnerships. We explore the challenges of shifting gender roles, why men and women often struggle to find balance, and how understanding this can help you connect on a deeper level. Tune in for personal stories from our marriages, stay for the client successes and practical insights!

The BEST Way to Date in Month 1

In the early stages of dating, taking things slow can make all the difference. In this Love U Podcast, I reveal the best practices for dating during the first month, from pacing emotional intimacy to setting boundaries that protect your self-worth. Discover how to keep things balanced, avoid common pitfalls, and see if he has genuine relationship potential over the first four to six weeks. This episode provides a roadmap to confidently navigating the early dating phase without rushing into commitment, so you can avoid unnecessary heartbreak and set yourself up for long-term success.

There Are Good Men

In a world that can feel negative about dating, it’s easy to believe there are no good men left. In this episode, I challenge that belief with real stories and research showing that genuine, committed men do exist. I share two stories of men who found love later in life, despite heartbreak, and emphasize that finding a great partner is about staying open, setting high standards, and not settling for less. I also dive into new data on remarriage rates that defies the stereotype of men avoiding commitment. If you’re feeling discouraged about love, this episode is here to remind you that the right man is out there.

Giving Chances in Relationships

As a high-achieving woman, you have choices. You can choose to give a chance to a guy who is not your type, or stick with your type. You can choose to make his behavior a dealbreaker, or learn to accept him in full. In this episode, my friend Carol Allen and I consider your choices and draw the same conclusion: all married couples compromise your way into happiness, and what they tolerate from their partners is minor compared to what they gain. We also discuss what it’s like to be a childless woman in a world of parents, and celebrate another Love U engagement. You don’t want to miss this!

How to Break Up With Him

Have you ever been stuck in a situation where you’re giving more than you’re getting? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, we dive into the tough but necessary conversation about breaking up with someone who isn’t ready to commit. I’ll guide you on how to recognize when a relationship isn’t progressing and why it’s important to set boundaries to avoid wasting time with someone who isn’t ready for a future with you. If you want the confidence to let go of a relationship that’s not escalating and find the strength to move on to something better – this one’s for you!

My Thoughts on Nobody Wants This

It’s not just a hit Netflix series; it’s a direct calling for me to respond as a Jewish man married to a Catholic woman in a healthy interfaith relationship. In this episode, I talk about what’s bad, what’s good, and what Love U principles Kristen Bell’s character violates in her attempts to rid herself of a kind, consistent boyfriend. If you’ve watched the show, it’s worth the listen.

Can A Relationship Survive Political Differences?

We started off discussing the topic of envy – how rich people often envy happy couples and happy couples envy those with greater wealth. We moved to why I envied Matthew Hussey and he also envied me. (Seriously!) Finally, we went to a dangerous place – why political differences are so divisive and why they don’t have to necessarily end your relationship. Carol and I don’t agree politically but we do agree that people are more than their beliefs and opinions. Anyway, this Love U Podcast is juicy and I predict you’ll have something to say about it.