Why do some relationships fizzle out after a few months? And how can a shift in mindset lead to lasting love? In this episode, former client Rachel shares her journey from short-term connections to a secure, fulfilling relationship—without changing who she is. Discover why character matters more than chemistry, how to spot a secure partner, and how pacing emotional intimacy can help you date with confidence. If you’re ready to break free from frustrating dating patterns and connect with someone who truly values you, this episode is a must-listen.
Your Radical Living Challenge – interview with Marni Battista
Marni is a close friend, a high integrity human being, and one of the best I know at navigating change and radically reinventing your life. She went from being a high-paid dating coach to living a life more aligned with her values – leaving Los Angeles for a small ski town in Colorado – taking less money but finding more peace and happiness on the way. If you’re questioning a lot of things in life, her new book, “Your Radical Living Challenge,” may be the breakthrough you need.
About this episode’s guest:
Marni Battista is an entrepreneur, author, transformational coach, podcast host, and radical truth seeker. Her straight-to-the-point podcast and page-turning books drop beautiful pearls of wisdom that will provide life-changing stories of triumph and courage—empowering you to start LIVING a life beyond your wildest dreams.
Battista’s essays have appeared in The LA Times, The Jerusalem Post, Happiful Magazine, The Huffington Post, and more. She has also been featured on The Dr. Phil Show, On Air with Ryan Seacrest, Home & Family TV, and Loveline with Dr. Drew.
Battista currently lives with her husband in destinations around the world as they continue their Radical Living Challenge—the subject of her upcoming book, to be published by Hay House on February 5, 2025
Where you can find Marni:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Datingwithdignity
Twitter: https://twitter.com/marnibattista
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@LifeCheckYourself
The Radical Living Challenge: 7 questions for living a meaningful life: https://radicallivingevent.com/
Unlock the shocking truth about how your unique personality type is silently shaping your future: https://decodeyourdestinyquiz.com/
The Truth About The Ick
Sometimes, attraction disappears in an instant—but is the ick a real dealbreaker or just a reflex? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I break down why women experience the ick more than men, the psychology behind these sudden turn-offs, and whether they’re actually keeping you from a great relationship. From minor quirks to social conditioning, I explore what triggers the ick, why genuine interest is often mistaken for a turn-off, and how to distinguish between superficial dealbreakers and true incompatibilities. If you’ve ever lost attraction for someone over something small, this episode will help you rethink what really matters in love.
Million Dollar Matchmaking – interview with Adam Cohen-Aslatei, CEO of Three Day Rule
Are dating apps failing you? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I talk with Adam Cohen-Aslatei, CEO of Three Day Rule, about why so many singles feel burned out on modern dating. We explore the pitfalls of swiping culture, the power of matchmaking, and why dating is a skill you can (and should) learn. Adam also shares insights on Three Day Rule’s exclusive $1M matchmaking experience and how personalized coaching can transform your love life. If you’re frustrated with dating and looking for a better approach, you won’t want to miss this episode.
About this episode’s guest:
Adam is the CEO of Three Day Rule, one of the top matchmaking and relationship wellness companies in the U.S. He is also the founder of S’More, the world’s first anti-superficial dating app, which he successfully grew and sold to Tawkify, a leading matchmaking service, in 2023. With over 17 years of experience in the dating industry, Adam has held leadership roles at prominent companies including The Meet Group, Zoosk, Tawkify, and Bumble and has appeared in major media outlets such as The Wall Street Journal, Forbes, The Washington Post, NBC, CBS, and ABC.
As a high-growth marketer and expert in dating app product development, Adam previously served as Managing Director of Chappy, Bumble’s gay dating app, which was acquired by Blackstone in 2019. Over the past five years, he has been recognized as a leading executive in the dating industry and frequently consults for companies like FAM, Meetup, Blaber, Friended, Raya, SoLo Funds, and The Lunge App.
Where you can find Adam Cohen-Aslatei:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-cohen-aslatei-0170018/
https://www.linkedin.com/company/three-day-rule/
https://www.instagram.com/threedayrule
https://www.facebook.com/ThreeDayRule
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBXy3queMhTezmrdhOICE3Q
https://www.threedayrule.com/million_dollar_matchmaking
How to Be Date-able with Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu
In today’s Love U Podcast, I sit down with Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu, the hosts of the hit Datable podcast and authors of How to Be Dateable, to unpack the modern dating landscape. We discuss why so many singles feel stuck, the common traps that keep people from finding love, and how to shift your mindset to create real connection. From the myth of “love on demand” to the dangers of playing relationship chicken, we explore how dating has become more about strategy than sincerity—and why breaking free from these patterns can transform your love life. If you’re tired of swiping, second-guessing, and feeling like dating is a numbers game, this episode will give you the fresh perspective you need to date with confidence and ease.
About Today’s Guests:
Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu are active daters turned dating insiders, and top influential voices of modern dating, relationships, and connection in the digital world. They’re the authors of How To Be Dateable: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling in Love and the co-hosts of the hit podcast Dateable, which has been named one of the top podcasts about modern dating and relationships by the New York Times, The Huffington Post, Oprah Daily, and more. They’re also the hosts and executive producers of the dating experiment show Exit Interview. Julie brings her background in human-centered design and research, while Yue shares her experience as a dating coach.
Where you can find Julie & Yue:
Websites: https://howtobedateable.com/ and https://dateablepodcast.com/
Get their book: https://amzn.to/3Q24YvI
What To Do When He Moves Too Fast (or Slow)
What do you do when he’s moving too fast or too slow? In this Love U Podcast, I’ll teach you how to slow him down, speed things up, and set boundaries that make dating feel easy. From avoiding blind dates with strangers to using FaceTime as your first date, this episode is packed with practical advice to help you find a man who’s ready to build trust and connection. If you’re tired of endless texting and mixed signals, this episode is for you!
Ask a Jewish Matchmaker with Aleeza Ben Shalom
In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I talk with Aleeza Ben Shalom, a world-renowned matchmaker, dating coach, and author. Aleeza shares her journey into matchmaking, insights on aligning values in relationships, and the importance of intentionality in dating.
We discuss the challenges of modern dating, how to approach relationships with clarity, and her advice for building a love that lasts. If you’re ready to navigate dating with a fresh perspective, this episode is packed with practical wisdom.
About today’s guest:
Aleeza Ben Shalom is a world-renowned matchmaker, dating coach, and soulmate clarity expert, best known for empowering marriage-minded singles to find their ideal match. As the founder of Marriage Minded Mentor, she connects individuals with skilled professionals and has trained over 350 dating coaches and matchmakers worldwide. Her expertise has been featured in prominent media outlets, including NBC News, The Guardian, and Rolling Stone.
Where you can find Aleeza:
Website: https://marriagemindedmentor.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aleezabenshalom
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom
Get Aleeza’s Book: https://www.amazon.com/Matchmaker-Find-Love-That-Lasts/dp/1454956143
How to Break Your Bad Dating Habits
Are your dating habits holding you back? In this Love U Podcast, I share the story of a woman stuck in a cycle of unfulfilling relationships, and reveal how to identify and break bad dating habits. Learn why settling doesn’t work, how to embrace your worth, and how aiming higher can transform your love life. If you’re ready for something better, this episode is a must-listen.
My Experience with the LA Fires
In this emergency episode of the Love U Podcast, I share my experience facing wildfires that threatened my home and family. From managing chaos to working as a team with my wife, this crisis reinforced the importance of love, communication, and clarity. Tune in for valuable insights on navigating challenges together.
5 Ways Anxious and Avoidant People Are Similar
Anxious and avoidant attachment styles may seem like opposites, but they share surprising traits that can hold you back in love. In this episode, I uncover what these patterns have in common and how they impact relationships in ways you might not expect. If fear or frustration has been getting in the way of your happiness, you don’t want to miss this.
