The End of Gender Roles?

Why are gay couples happier than straight couples? Why do men and women resent roles they’ve chosen in their relationships? Why do Evan and his wife have the same exact issues as everybody else in the world? On this Love U Podcast, we’re going to explore gender roles within committed relationships and learn how to make smart compromises that lead to greater happiness.

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https://www.nytimes.com/2020/02/13/opinion/sunday/marriage-housework-gender-happiness.html

Does He REALLY Make You Happy?

All too often, you find yourself seeing a guy who is amazing on paper, but you’re not happy in the relationship. The longer you stay with him, the worse it gets, the more you want him to change, and the harder it is to break away. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to ask you to consider how many years you ignored your feelings in relationships. And in the second half of the episode, we’re going to explore what it feels like to be with a man where you feel like part of a team, instead of two individuals who happen to be married.

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https://www.nytimes.com/2023/02/09/opinion/relationship-identity-mindset-marriage.html

Is He Toxic?

What is toxic? Is it lovebombing? Ghosting? Gaslighting? Narcissistic Personality Disorder? Or is it a guy who can’t resolve conflict? Who can’t hold down a job? Who won’t remain faithful? Who is highly negative and critical? It may be all of these, but one thing’s for sure: we’re gonna dive deep in this Love U Podcast. Soon, you’ll discover that it doesn’t matter what the label, all that matters is how you FEEL in the relationship.

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https://www.nytimes.com/2023/02/11/style/therapy-speak-dating.html 

Why We All Need Connection

Independence is a good thing. You need to be independent from your parents to become a high-functioning adult. You need to have an education and career that supports you on your own. You should have friends and interests of your own choosing. But what happens when all that independence leaves you alone? No one taking care of you. No one sharing the burdens of life. No one to build a future. No day-to-day loving connection from a partner devoted to your happiness. That’s the topic of today’s Love U Podcast.

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https://www.nytimes.com/2023/03/09/opinion/art-of-dependence.html

How to Get Great Dates on Dating Apps

In a brand new Love U Podcast format – which allows for longer stories and more vivid gesticulation – I cover two super important concepts: 1. The value of screening men on dating apps and exactly how to do it. 2. The problem with assortative mating – dating people who are just like you. And since I went on 300 online dates before getting married to a partner who is not like me, I think you ought to listen closely.

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https://www.nytimes.com/2023/02/13/opinion/marriage-assortative-mating.html

How to Deal With a Man With an Anxious Attachment Style

An anxious attachment style is marked by behavior that is perceived as needy, clingy, nervous and sometimes, histrionic. The more afraid you are that your partner will leave you, the more you act out to ensure it doesn’t happen. Many of my Love U clients are anxious. But what happens when the man you’re dating is the anxious one? Will you soothe his insecurities or abandon him like everyone else? Stick around to learn what to do when he’s afraid.

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7 Powerful Tips for the Early Stage of Dating

SO MANY things can go wrong in the early stage of dating. That’s why – in Love U – I have an entire month of content based on the time between when you meet a guy until the time he becomes your boyfriend. This is where most people screw up. This is where most people need help. This is why I have a job. Behold, 7 tips, directly from Love U, on how to navigate that precious time before he’s your boyfriend.

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10 Steps for Talking About Politics When Dating

Trigger warning. No, I don’t do trigger warnings. But today, I’m going to be talking about something controversial – something that’s been tearing up the United States slowly for 30 years. Political tribalism. It’s been a huge negative force in America. Politics has essentially turned into a religion, where otherwise normal people turn into the Hatfields and McCoys. So when is political tribalism a dealbreaker and when it can be dealt with? Let’s just say I have thoughts.

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4 Simple Tips to Stop Obsessing Over Your Crush

This is the first guy you’ve liked in a long time. It’s exciting to have a crush, but you realize that you’re probably a little too obsessed with someone you barely know. While you’re still going to stalk him on social media and check your phone incessantly to see when he texts you again, you also need to do something healthy so this obsession doesn’t take over your life. In this short podcast, I’m going to give you a framework to relax, keep your perspective and stop obsessing about the new guy.

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