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How Soon Should You Act on Red Flags?

When a guy is cute and you’re tired of dating and longing for connection, it’s easy to fall into a relationship. But if you keep telling yourself that you “attract the wrong guys,” pay close attention. Because the truth is that you don’t attract the wrong men, you overlook their red flags at the beginning only to have a hard time breaking up down the road when these issues rear their ugly head. Starting today, you won’t make that mistake anymore. Stick around.

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How Important Are Common Interests, Anyway?

Check out an online dating profile. You’ll see lists of hobbies and interests, suggesting that if you have these things in common, you’ll be a good match. But is that the case? If he has passions that you don’t share, should you not even bother to write to him? In today’s Love U Podcast, I answer a reader question with a straightforward response that will forever make you reconsider the place of common interests.

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5 Reasons You May Be Afraid of Commitment

Women who apply to Love U do so because they’ve hit bottom. You’re tired of getting ghosted, you’re tired of dating apps, you’re tired of wasting time on emotionally unavailable men, and you’d really like to find your person. In other words, no one comes here to be a dating expert. Everyone wants a successful long-term relationship. So now, when you’re finally faced with a man who may be boyfriend material, you freeze. Come to think of it, you say you want commitment, but maybe you’re not ready for commitment. That’s what today’s Love U podcast is about. Stick around.

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Is He Cheating or Not Cheating?

Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you stop interacting with the opposite sex. And when you do, there’s always the possibility that someone could be unfaithful and the possibility that someone can be unreasonably insecure and jealous. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to outline exactly what constitutes cheating and what doesn’t. I’m positive that no one will disagree and this will be the last word on it. Stick around.

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How Men And Women Pursue Sex Differently

Ever notice that men are willing to sleep with you even if they have no desire to commit? You’re not alone. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to deconstruct how men and women pursue sex differently and why it’s important to understand these differences. After all, you can’t change men, but you can change who you sleep with and when. Stick around.

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Should I Give a Chance to an Older Guy Who Has Never Been Married?

Should you consider dating an older guy who has never been married? While red flags abound, there’s a good reason to consider a lifelong bachelor who wants to settle down: the fact that there are plenty of never-married women in their 50’s who ALSO want to get married. Stick around if you want to learn how judge people as individuals rather than categories.

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Are You Choosing Your Man? Or Are You Being Chosen?

You wouldn’t take any food that someone forced onto your plate. You wouldn’t take any job that was offered to you out of college. You wouldn’t live in any home that was temporarily vacant. Then why is it that so many women tell me that their entire love lives have been based on whatever man showed strong interest at the time? The answer, of course, is scarcity. If you think you’re never going to eat again, you’ll take whatever food is offered. If you think you have no employment options, you grab anything that pays the bills. If you’re going to be homeless, you take a room wherever it’s available. Here’s what’s different about love: you don’t NEED to take whatever’s available. You can say no. You can be single. You can raise your standards until they’re met. So if your pattern is falling into a relationship with whoever tries the hardest when you’re lonely, listen to this Love U Podcast. You’ll never be the same.

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How Do I Get Him to Plan a Date?

Gender roles have changed in the last 40 years. Women are now equal in workplace and have taken on a more masculine, proactive role in their lives. In turn, many men have become more passive when it comes to dating – and women are not really enjoying this shift. So what can you do when you like a guy who just won’t take the lead? Stick around and I’ll break it down for you.

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Why It’s Hard For Successful Women To Date Successful Men

You’re the smart, successful woman who has everything but her man. You have a job you love. You’ve got your own home. You are well read, well traveled, and have been on the planet long enough to know what you like and what you don’t. And what you like – somewhat predictably – are men who are more impressive than you. Taller, smarter, richer, funnier, more charismatic, more driven. A man you can look up to. No one is blaming you for this attraction. But what have you noticed in your attempts to single-mindedly pursue such men? 95% of men aren’t qualified. Of the remaining 5%, half of them don’t want to date a woman as strong as you. As for the other half, they’re attracted to you but, for some reason, the relationship never works. But does that stop you from going for these Type A impressive guys? Of course not! You keep dating more men who are just like you, thinking that eventually you’re going to find one that fits. What you don’t realize is that dating men who is the problem. Because they are just like you. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to explain how your best bet to have a happy relationship is to change your choice of partner, rather than trying to change your personality.

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How Can I Attract A Quality Man If I’m Over 50?

It’s not just in your head. The older you get, the harder dating gets. A lot of secure men are already taken. A lot of anxious and avoidant men litter the dating pool. A lot of divorced men are in no rush to get married again. And age discrimination is a real thing. Given that situation, what’s a woman over 50 to do? Stick around and I’ll explain.

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