Are men really more sexually aggressive than women? Why do women want to be desired? How do we square women’s need to be wanted in a post #MeToo world? All of this juicy stuff comes from a thought-provoking article by Richard Reeves, author of Of Boys and Men. Also, tips to avoid getting stuck in a dead-end situationship.
How to Get Great Dates on Dating Apps
In a brand new Love U Podcast format – which allows for longer stories and more vivid gesticulation – I cover two super important concepts: 1. The value of screening men on dating apps and exactly how to do it. 2. The problem with assortative mating – dating people who are just like you. And since I went on 300 online dates before getting married to a partner who is not like me, I think you ought to listen closely.
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https://www.nytimes.com/2023/02/13/opinion/marriage-assortative-mating.html
How to Deal With a Man With an Anxious Attachment Style
An anxious attachment style is marked by behavior that is perceived as needy, clingy, nervous and sometimes, histrionic. The more afraid you are that your partner will leave you, the more you act out to ensure it doesn’t happen. Many of my Love U clients are anxious. But what happens when the man you’re dating is the anxious one? Will you soothe his insecurities or abandon him like everyone else? Stick around to learn what to do when he’s afraid.
7 Powerful Tips for the Early Stage of Dating
SO MANY things can go wrong in the early stage of dating. That’s why – in Love U – I have an entire month of content based on the time between when you meet a guy until the time he becomes your boyfriend. This is where most people screw up. This is where most people need help. This is why I have a job. Behold, 7 tips, directly from Love U, on how to navigate that precious time before he’s your boyfriend.
10 Steps for Talking About Politics When Dating
Trigger warning. No, I don’t do trigger warnings. But today, I’m going to be talking about something controversial – something that’s been tearing up the United States slowly for 30 years. Political tribalism. It’s been a huge negative force in America. Politics has essentially turned into a religion, where otherwise normal people turn into the Hatfields and McCoys. So when is political tribalism a dealbreaker and when it can be dealt with? Let’s just say I have thoughts.
4 Simple Tips to Stop Obsessing Over Your Crush
This is the first guy you’ve liked in a long time. It’s exciting to have a crush, but you realize that you’re probably a little too obsessed with someone you barely know. While you’re still going to stalk him on social media and check your phone incessantly to see when he texts you again, you also need to do something healthy so this obsession doesn’t take over your life. In this short podcast, I’m going to give you a framework to relax, keep your perspective and stop obsessing about the new guy.
5 Questions to Ask When He’s Friends With His Ex
You discovered your boyfriend still talks to his ex. Maybe it was a social media post, maybe it was a text, or maybe he’s meeting her for dinner. The question is whether this is a big deal – and if it is – what should you do about it? My answer will surprise you – and likely piss you off. Enjoy the Love U Podcast.
9 Reasons Why Guys Don’t Commit
You’ve fallen in love with seemingly great guys who did all the right things, let you fall in love with them, and then, for some reason, wouldn’t step up to the plate to commit. Are these men all players, toxic narcissists, and monsters? Of course not. There are good reasons that guys don’t commit. Well, maybe not good reasons, but they’re real and I’d rather tell you the truth about them than to leave you in the dark.
5 Signs He Just Wants Sex
He’s hot. He’s into you. He sleeps with you. He ghosts. It’s an age-old tale – we know how it ends – and yet, this scenario plays out, over and over, every day, across the world. And it made me think: what if there were an easy way to explain to women in a few minutes why this happens and how to avoid it? Well, now there is. This is the Love U Podcast. Stick around.
Why Women in their 40’s, 50’s and 60’s Should Be Optimistic About Love
I know. It’s rough out there. You go online, and it’s a horror show. The older you get, the less attractive the men are. The older you get, the more damaged the men are. The older you get, the fewer ugly, damaged men even bother to show interest in you. Because of this, you may be tempted to give up – to conclude that dating is hopeless after a certain age. In this Love U podcast, I want to restore your sense of hope and show you why there are plenty of quality guys in the marketplace, no matter what your age.
