10 Life-Changing Relationship Tips for Women

For most people, relationships are hard. Finding someone who meets your mental, physical and emotional needs is hard, and maintaining that connection is even harder. But recently I discovered that most of my clients have a huge blind spot: they have amazing relationship skills that they use in the workplace; they just don’t use them in romantic relationships. In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I’m going to share some great business advice that doubles as great dating advice.

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I’m Not Attracted to Anyone. What Should I Do?

Have you ever noticed how hard it is to find an attractive guy on a dating app? Have you ever noticed that the most attractive guys are the least likely to follow through once you match? Have you ever considered there might be a more effective way to date? In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to answer a common reader question, share some eye-opening statistics about attraction and give you some practical advice that will help you meet more attractive guys than ever before.

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You May Be Passing Up Your Soulmate Online

You may not want to hear this but you may be passing up your soulmate online. In Love U, we assume that 90% of men are not your future husband, but that leaves 10% of men to choose from. And if you’re online right now and you’re only open to 1% of men, you are most likely sabotaging your own chances of happiness. In this Love U Podcast, I tell you a real story of some mega smart, mega hot, mega-wealthy women who’ve struggled to find quality men – and how one of them finally listened to me and got an amazing guy out of the process.

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How Do You Stay in Love and Keep a Relationship Fresh?

Once you’re past the honeymoon period of a relationship – usually, 18-36 months – you enter the attachment phase of love. That’s when love becomes a choice, rather than a feeling. So if you’re going to choose to love someone, how can you ensure that your relationship doesn’t fall into a rut like so many others? 14 years into my marriage, I feel like I’ve got a few ideas and in this Love U Podcast, I really open up about the kind of practices and beliefs you can use to invigorate your relationship.

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How Do I Break Up With Him?

How do I break up with him? As a dating coach, I get this question frequently, and every time, I find myself a little bit surprised. Evidently, what seems obvious to me is extremely challenging and emotionally fraught to others. In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I’m going to make sense of why I get this question, and, in turn, how you can use what you learn in this episode to let go of your man and find one who is a better fit for your life.

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You’re Dating Completely Wrong (According to Science)

Race/ethnicity, religious affiliation, height, occupation, physical attractiveness, previous marital status, sexual tastes, similarity to oneself. These are the things you find attractive. And yet these are qualities that have been proven to have ZERO effect on your chances for romantic happiness. This disconnect between what’s attractive and important is at the heart of what I teach in Love U, and I’m delighted to share these two studies that back up this claim. You’re dating wrong and until you figure out how to date right, you’re doomed to repeat the same mistakes you’ve made for your entire life.

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Why Do Men Act So Horribly on Dating Apps?

You use dating apps and you hate them. Guys who match with you are icky. Guys who text you are either too passive or too aggressive. Guys who seem interested disappear. Guys who seem normal send dick pix. What the f@#$? I might not be able to change what men do on Tinder or Bumble but I can explain why dating apps will always produce behavior like this, and how you can do better.

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How Do I Know If I Can Do Better Than My Boyfriend?

Are you in a relationship with a man where you’re always wondering if you can do better? In this Love U Podcast, I answer questions from two listeners who feel uneasy with their boyfriends and wonder whether it’s normal. Yes, it’s normal to have second thoughts about boyfriends, and no, you shouldn’t stay if the negative outweighs the positive.

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8 Reasons Men Are Terrible At Dating

You’ve gone out with enough guys to realize that, well, most of them are just AWFUL at dating. Canceling at the last minute. Staring at their phones. Not picking up the check. Leaving early. Trying to get laid. Talking trash about their exes. It’s not a pretty scene. But if we can assume that men are legitimately doing their best to make a good first impression, then how can they be SO FAR OFF? In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to explain to you why most guys are horrible at the act of dating – and what you should do about it.

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Why You’re Attracted to the Wrong Guys and What To Do About It

It’s normal to be attracted to guys who aren’t good for you. It’s normal to date such men in hopes that they’ll change, that they’ll grow, that things will get better, that the power of your chemistry and love will make it work. It never does. Attraction is what gets you INTO a relationship. Compatibility is what keeps you there. And if you keep finding yourself in relationships with attractive incompatible guys, you need to do something different to get you a different result. In this Love U Podcast, I’m going to show you how.

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