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You Can’t Do the Wrong Thing With the Right Guy

So much dating advice is about strategy. If he texts me, how long should I wait to text him back? Should I say “I love you” first? Can I ask him if he’s looking for a commitment? As a dating coach for women, I’ll be the first to admit, dating is a skill and there are some ways of conducting yourself that are more effective than others. At the same time, it’s important to know that dating’s not a chess match, most men aren’t playing games, and that when you’re with the right guy, you literally can’t make a mistake.

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5 Feminine Traits That Men Find Totally Irresistible

One of my most popular videos starts with this counterintuitive premise: Men are about feelings, not about looks. What that means is that men may be drawn in by how you look, but what keeps a man in your life is how he feels when he’s around you. In today’s podcast, we’re going to quickly explore 5 ways you can make a guy feel great, so when you finally meet a good one, he’ll want to devote his entire life to making you happy.

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Do You Choose Men Based on What Was Wrong With Your Ex?

You were in a relationship with a man who had no money. You break up. What do you look for? Money. You were in a relationship that had no passion. You break up. What do you look for? Passion. I call this the Overcorrection. When you’ve been deprived of something for too long, it’s normal to crave it. The problem is when we go too far in the other direction. Today, I’m going to explain more about overcorrecting and how to calibrate your next dating choice so you can get it just right.

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How To Get Over A Crush (Even When It Seems Impossible)

You’ve been crushing on this guy for a long time. It feels great – to see him, to talk to him, to think about what it would like to be with him. That feeling is electric and it’s carried you…all the way to this podcast. Because despite all the time, energy, and daydreaming you’ve invested in this man, he is not interested in you. Maybe he doesn’t know you exist. Maybe he sees you as just a friend. Maybe he’s got a serious girlfriend. Whatever the situation, you have to get past this guy, right now, so you can move on with your life.

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Why Masculinity Causes Problems in Relationships

If you’re like most women I coach, you like masculine men. I do, too. They’re smart. Confident. Bold. Decisive. Big personalities. The willingness to take a stand and lead. But what’s the downside of choosing such men? They’re often narcissists. Tactless. Players. Too busy. Commitmentphobes. Liars. Controlling. Verbally abusive. Alpha men see themselves as the sun and you are a mere planet revolving around him. Yet, compared to boring nice guys, you still prefer masculine men. So, like we do on all our Love U Podcasts, let’s look at masculinity in a precise and nuanced way so you can better understand what kind of man will be a good long-term fit for you.

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When You Should Know He’s “The One”

You know the feeling. It’s magical. It happens only a few times in your entire life. That moment when you’re dating someone and you know, deep in your heart, that he’s your soulmate and that you two are going to be together forever.Think about every time you’ve felt that feeling of meeting “the one.” Can you picture the man? Can you conjure that feeling? Now, ask yourself: what happened to these relationships? Did ANY of the men who you thought were the one love you unconditionally, take care of you emotionally, and prove to be compatible partners? No.They did not. In this Love U Podcast, we’re going to talk about the concept of finding the one and how you can make better choices the next time you meet an amazing man.

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Are Men Actually Intimidated By You?

You’re a beautiful woman and you’ve achieved a lot professionally.

You have an education. You have a nice home. You have sophisticated tastes.

You know what you’re worth and you’re not going to settle. 

As a dating coach for smart, strong, successful women, this is something we can completely agree upon.

But there are two problems being in the 95th percentile of all women.

  1. You believe you have to date men who are also in the 95th percentile.
  2. You believe that everyone who is less successful than you is intimidated by you.

As a result, it seems like there are no men out there for you. 

In today’s Love U Podcast, I’m going to challenge both of those beliefs and show you how you are actively getting in your own way in your search for lasting love. Stick around.

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How to Handle Trust Issues in Relationships

You’ve had relationships where you couldn’t trust the guy. Maybe you caught him in a series of lies. Maybe he had a history as a player. Maybe you have a history of being cheated on.Whatever it is, trust issues can completely sink your relationship. After listening to this Love U Podcast, you will never again stay with a man you can’t trust.

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Does Your Boyfriend Have to Be Growth-Oriented, Too?

You ever date a guy who was just set in his ways? You ever wish you could change a man and help him do the work to reach his potential? Go to therapy. Take a self-help class. Write in a journal. Meditate. Join you on your spiritual journey so you can do it together. But if you’re still single, I would like to gently point out that perhaps finding another growth-oriented man isn’t as important as you think it is. In fact, your adherence to dating a man who lives life much like you may be the biggest obstacle you have to finding lasting love.

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What He’s Thinking Before He Dumps You

There are few worse feelings than getting dumped. You trusted. You made yourself vulnerable. You gave your time, your energy, your body, your soul to this man. You bent over backwards to compromise, to listen, to communicate, to continue work on your relationship and still, he saw fit to end it. All people are different and all relationships have their unique downfalls but in this Love U Podcast, I want to explain to you, in general, what men are thinking before they break up with you. A not-so-surprising note to regular listeners: it’s not that different than what you think before you break up with him.

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