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Why Masculinity Causes Problems in Relationships

If you’re like most women I coach, you like masculine men. I do, too. They’re smart. Confident. Bold. Decisive. Big personalities. The willingness to take a stand and lead. But what’s the downside of choosing such men? They’re often narcissists. Tactless. Players. Too busy. Commitmentphobes. Liars. Controlling. Verbally abusive. Alpha men see themselves as the sun and you are a mere planet revolving around him. Yet, compared to boring nice guys, you still prefer masculine men. So, like we do on all our Love U Podcasts, let’s look at masculinity in a precise and nuanced way so you can better understand what kind of man will be a good long-term fit for you.

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When You Should Know He’s “The One”

You know the feeling. It’s magical. It happens only a few times in your entire life. That moment when you’re dating someone and you know, deep in your heart, that he’s your soulmate and that you two are going to be together forever.Think about every time you’ve felt that feeling of meeting “the one.” Can you picture the man? Can you conjure that feeling? Now, ask yourself: what happened to these relationships? Did ANY of the men who you thought were the one love you unconditionally, take care of you emotionally, and prove to be compatible partners? No.They did not. In this Love U Podcast, we’re going to talk about the concept of finding the one and how you can make better choices the next time you meet an amazing man.

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Are Men Actually Intimidated By You?

You’re a beautiful woman and you’ve achieved a lot professionally.

You have an education. You have a nice home. You have sophisticated tastes.

You know what you’re worth and you’re not going to settle. 

As a dating coach for smart, strong, successful women, this is something we can completely agree upon.

But there are two problems being in the 95th percentile of all women.

  1. You believe you have to date men who are also in the 95th percentile.
  2. You believe that everyone who is less successful than you is intimidated by you.

As a result, it seems like there are no men out there for you. 

In today’s Love U Podcast, I’m going to challenge both of those beliefs and show you how you are actively getting in your own way in your search for lasting love. Stick around.

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How to Handle Trust Issues in Relationships

You’ve had relationships where you couldn’t trust the guy. Maybe you caught him in a series of lies. Maybe he had a history as a player. Maybe you have a history of being cheated on.Whatever it is, trust issues can completely sink your relationship. After listening to this Love U Podcast, you will never again stay with a man you can’t trust.

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Does Your Boyfriend Have to Be Growth-Oriented, Too?

You ever date a guy who was just set in his ways? You ever wish you could change a man and help him do the work to reach his potential? Go to therapy. Take a self-help class. Write in a journal. Meditate. Join you on your spiritual journey so you can do it together. But if you’re still single, I would like to gently point out that perhaps finding another growth-oriented man isn’t as important as you think it is. In fact, your adherence to dating a man who lives life much like you may be the biggest obstacle you have to finding lasting love.

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What He’s Thinking Before He Dumps You

There are few worse feelings than getting dumped. You trusted. You made yourself vulnerable. You gave your time, your energy, your body, your soul to this man. You bent over backwards to compromise, to listen, to communicate, to continue work on your relationship and still, he saw fit to end it. All people are different and all relationships have their unique downfalls but in this Love U Podcast, I want to explain to you, in general, what men are thinking before they break up with you. A not-so-surprising note to regular listeners: it’s not that different than what you think before you break up with him.

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What To Do When He Doesn’t Appreciate You

You’ve been in a relationship before with a man you genuinely loved. He said you were the one. He said he couldn’t live without you. He said he’d do whatever it took to make you happy. Except you’re not happy. Not even close. You’re exhausted. You’re sick of feeling misunderstood. You don’t want to have the same conversations over and over again, only to end up in the same place – ostensibly you’re in love, but in reality, your partner is draining you more than he’s filling you up. You may think that this is just how relationships go. It’s not. This how YOUR relationships have gone because of the men you’ve chosen and the behavior you’ve chosen to accept. In today’s Love U podcast, I’m going to tell you what to do so you’ll never have to feel this way again.

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The Best (and Easiest) Text You Can Send To Make Him Like You

You’ve seen other dating coaches’ videos. Here are the FIVE SEXY TEXT MESSAGES THAT WILL MAKE HIM CRAVE YOU. Here are the SEVEN THINGS YOU CAN DO RIGHT NOW THAT WILL BREAK DOWN HIS WILL AND MAKE HIM PROPOSE TO YOU WITHIN MINUTES. It’s clickbait and you click it and that’s why there are lesser dating coaches with bigger followings and that’s another story for another day. The fact is, there is one simple thing you can do right now that men love. Stick around and I’ll tell you what it is.

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Why Doesn’t He Ask Me Questions?

You’re dating a guy and things are going great. He’s bright, confident, comfortable in his own skin, and overall, he’s pretty good company.

Then, why do you feel so drained at the end of every date? Maybe it’s because he hasn’t expressed one bit of curiosity about your life. So, while you’re getting to know him, he’s not getting to know you. What’s that about? What can you do about it? Stick around and I’ll explain.

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How to Talk to Him About Your Darkest Secrets (Without Scaring Him Away)

Everybody’s got baggage. You’ve been divorced twice.You have herpes. You’re a former alcoholic. You take anti-depressants. You can’t have biological children. Whatever it is, you’re not alone. But that doesn’t make it any easier in a world where first impressions are everything and men are impossibly picky. So, how can you reveal your deepest, darkest secrets to the guy you’re dating without scaring him away? Stick around and I’ll explain.

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