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Million Dollar Matchmaking – interview with Adam Cohen-Aslatei, CEO of Three Day Rule

Are dating apps failing you? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I talk with Adam Cohen-Aslatei, CEO of Three Day Rule, about why so many singles feel burned out on modern dating. We explore the pitfalls of swiping culture, the power of matchmaking, and why dating is a skill you can (and should) learn. Adam also shares insights on Three Day Rule’s exclusive $1M matchmaking experience and how personalized coaching can transform your love life. If you’re frustrated with dating and looking for a better approach, you won’t want to miss this episode.

About this episode’s guest:
Adam is the CEO of Three Day Rule, one of the top matchmaking and relationship wellness companies in the U.S. He is also the founder of S’More, the world’s first anti-superficial dating app, which he successfully grew and sold to Tawkify, a leading matchmaking service, in 2023. With over 17 years of experience in the dating industry, Adam has held leadership roles at prominent companies including The Meet Group, Zoosk, Tawkify, and Bumble and has appeared in major media outlets such as The Wall Street Journal, Forbes, The Washington Post, NBC, CBS, and ABC.

As a high-growth marketer and expert in dating app product development, Adam previously served as Managing Director of Chappy, Bumble’s gay dating app, which was acquired by Blackstone in 2019. Over the past five years, he has been recognized as a leading executive in the dating industry and frequently consults for companies like FAM, Meetup, Blaber, Friended, Raya, SoLo Funds, and The Lunge App.

Where you can find Adam Cohen-Aslatei:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-cohen-aslatei-0170018/
https://www.linkedin.com/company/three-day-rule/
https://www.instagram.com/threedayrule
https://www.facebook.com/ThreeDayRule
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBXy3queMhTezmrdhOICE3Q
https://www.threedayrule.com/million_dollar_matchmaking

How to Be Date-able with Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu

In today’s Love U Podcast, I sit down with Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu, the hosts of the hit Datable podcast and authors of How to Be Dateable, to unpack the modern dating landscape. We discuss why so many singles feel stuck, the common traps that keep people from finding love, and how to shift your mindset to create real connection. From the myth of “love on demand” to the dangers of playing relationship chicken, we explore how dating has become more about strategy than sincerity—and why breaking free from these patterns can transform your love life. If you’re tired of swiping, second-guessing, and feeling like dating is a numbers game, this episode will give you the fresh perspective you need to date with confidence and ease.

About Today’s Guests:
Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu are active daters turned dating insiders, and top influential voices of modern dating, relationships, and connection in the digital world. They’re the authors of How To Be Dateable: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling in Love and the co-hosts of the hit podcast Dateable, which has been named one of the top podcasts about modern dating and relationships by the New York Times, The Huffington Post, Oprah Daily, and more. They’re also the hosts and executive producers of the dating experiment show Exit Interview. Julie brings her background in human-centered design and research, while Yue shares her experience as a dating coach.

Where you can find Julie & Yue:
Websites: https://howtobedateable.com/ and https://dateablepodcast.com/
Get their book: https://amzn.to/3Q24YvI

What To Do When He Moves Too Fast (or Slow)

What do you do when he’s moving too fast or too slow? In this Love U Podcast, I’ll teach you how to slow him down, speed things up, and set boundaries that make dating feel easy. From avoiding blind dates with strangers to using FaceTime as your first date, this episode is packed with practical advice to help you find a man who’s ready to build trust and connection. If you’re tired of endless texting and mixed signals, this episode is for you!

Ask a Jewish Matchmaker with Aleeza Ben Shalom

In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I talk with Aleeza Ben Shalom, a world-renowned matchmaker, dating coach, and author. Aleeza shares her journey into matchmaking, insights on aligning values in relationships, and the importance of intentionality in dating.

We discuss the challenges of modern dating, how to approach relationships with clarity, and her advice for building a love that lasts. If you’re ready to navigate dating with a fresh perspective, this episode is packed with practical wisdom.

About today’s guest:

Aleeza Ben Shalom is a world-renowned matchmaker, dating coach, and soulmate clarity expert, best known for empowering marriage-minded singles to find their ideal match. As the founder of Marriage Minded Mentor, she connects individuals with skilled professionals and has trained over 350 dating coaches and matchmakers worldwide. Her expertise has been featured in prominent media outlets, including NBC News, The Guardian, and Rolling Stone.

Where you can find Aleeza:

Website: https://marriagemindedmentor.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aleezabenshalom
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom
Get Aleeza’s Book: https://www.amazon.com/Matchmaker-Find-Love-That-Lasts/dp/1454956143

How to Break Your Bad Dating Habits

Are your dating habits holding you back? In this Love U Podcast, I share the story of a woman stuck in a cycle of unfulfilling relationships, and reveal how to identify and break bad dating habits. Learn why settling doesn’t work, how to embrace your worth, and how aiming higher can transform your love life. If you’re ready for something better, this episode is a must-listen.

My Experience with the LA Fires

In this emergency episode of the Love U Podcast, I share my experience facing wildfires that threatened my home and family. From managing chaos to working as a team with my wife, this crisis reinforced the importance of love, communication, and clarity. Tune in for valuable insights on navigating challenges together.

5 Ways Anxious and Avoidant People Are Similar

Anxious and avoidant attachment styles may seem like opposites, but they share surprising traits that can hold you back in love. In this episode, I uncover what these patterns have in common and how they impact relationships in ways you might not expect. If fear or frustration has been getting in the way of your happiness, you don’t want to miss this.

Are You on The Fence About Your Attraction To Him?

Are you unsure about your attraction to the man you’re dating? In this Love U Podcast episode, I delve into how to navigate that uncertain feeling, distinguish between negative and neutral attraction, and evaluate whether a connection has the potential to grow. I share practical strategies for assessing comfort, fun, and attraction on early dates, and offer permission to say no when the chemistry just isn’t there. If you’ve ever wondered whether to give a guy another chance or move on, this episode provides the clarity and confidence you need to make empowered decisions in dating. Tune in for actionable advice to start the New Year with a fresh perspective on love!

Are Dating, Relationships and Marriage Dying?

Are dating, relationships, and marriage a thing of the past? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, my friend, Carol, and I discuss the cultural shifts impacting modern love. We explore why so many people are opting out of dating, whether online dating is making things harder, and how societal expectations around gender roles and attraction play into the challenges of finding a lasting relationship. Plus, we share practical advice for staying open, overcoming limiting beliefs, and taking control of your love life—no matter the trends. If you’ve ever wondered if true love is still possible in today’s world, this episode offers hope and actionable insights to help you stay optimistic. Don’t miss it!

How to Stop Overthinking Relationships

Do you spend too much time in your head overthinking your relationship?

In this episode of the Love U Podcast, I explore the two most common types of overthinking in relationships: anxious attachment and analyzing failing relationships to death. I share why overthinking happens, how it sabotages your happiness, and the tough questions you need to ask yourself to gain clarity. Whether you’re stuck in an unsatisfying relationship or constantly second-guessing a good one, this episode offers practical advice to help you stop overthinking and start trusting your feelings. If you’re ready to find a relationship that feels easy and secure, you don’t want to miss this one!